Maybe he’d met someone else.
Maybe he had debts I never knew about.
Maybe raising so many children had finally become too much.
Maybe I hadn’t been enough reason to stay.
I never found an answer.
Sue managed the laundry.
***
A few men showed interest in the early years: a neighbor, a coworker, a friend of Derrick’s baseball coach.
But the conversations always ended the same way.
“Ten children?” One man said, setting down his coffee as if it had burned him.
“Yes,” I told him. “Ten.”
He never called again.
After a while, I stopped pretending there was room for dating. My evenings belonged to homework, baths, school lunches, fevers, bills, and bedtime prayers.
I never dated anyone again, but I was still happy because I had them.
He never called again.
***
My parents stayed angry for years and refused to help. My mother called every Christmas as if checking a box.
“Are you still doing this, Margaret?”
“They’re my children, Mama.”
“They are someone else’s children!”
“No,” I said gently. “They are mine.”
Eventually, I stopped answering.
And somehow, life kept going.
My parents stayed angry.
***
Amanda became a pediatric nurse. Derrick opened a small auto shop. Sue became a third-grade teacher. Jacob and David became engineers and still argued over everything. Sophie became a social worker and once told me she chose that profession because she wanted to be for other children what I had been for her.
I cried in the kitchen for an hour after she left that day.
Thirty years passed, and I don’t regret a single thing.
I cried in the kitchen for an hour.
***
Every Saturday, my children returned to the house I’d somehow managed to keep. Grandchildren ran through the yard. The kitchen smelled of roast chicken, tea, and Amanda’s lemon cake.
This past Saturday was no different at first.
Sophie was setting the table. Jacob and David were arguing about football. Derrick was fixing a cabinet door I hadn’t asked him to fix. Amanda was telling me to sit down because I looked tired.
Then someone knocked.
My children returned to the house.
I opened the door and found a man in a gray suit holding a leather folder.
“Margaret?” he asked.
“Yes?”
“My name is Mr. Johnson. I was Robert’s attorney.”
The room behind me seemed to fall silent.
“Robert?” I whispered.
He held out a thick envelope. My name was written across the front in handwriting I recognized immediately, even after three decades.
“I was Robert’s attorney.”
“Ma’am, I was instructed to deliver this to you on this exact day,” the lawyer said. “Those were his explicit instructions before he passed on.”
Before I could gather enough breath to ask anything, Mr. Johnson gave a respectful nod, turned, and walked back to his car.
I stood in the doorway with the envelope shaking in my hand.
“Mama?” Amanda said behind me. “Who was that?”
I couldn’t answer.
“I was instructed to deliver this.”
I walked back to the table where all 10 of my grown children sat waiting, and I broke the seal with trembling hands.
The room went quiet as a church.
“Read it, Mama,” Amanda whispered.
So I did.
Robert wrote that he’d been ill for months before the wedding. The tiredness, headaches, weight loss, and strange aches he kept blaming on work.
“Read it, Mama.”
One week before we were supposed to marry, doctors gave him the news. They believed he had months, perhaps a year. There was an experimental treatment, but no promise that it would help.
“I couldn’t bear to marry you, then make you a widow, leave you with 10 grieving children, and bury you all under medical bills. So, I left. The note I left was cruel because I thought cruelty would free me faster than pity.”
I had to stop reading. I felt sick.
Sophie reached for my hand.
They believed he had months.
Then I continued.
“The treatment worked when no one expected it to. But by the time my doctors were confident, nearly two years had passed. I returned once. Drove past the house three times before I found the courage to stop. I saw Amanda carrying groceries inside; Derrick was teaching the twins how to fix a bicycle chain, and Sophie was running across the yard toward you, calling you ‘Mama’.”
A tear fell.
“My love, I sat in a different truck for almost an hour and understood what I’d done. The children had stability and a mother who’d stayed. I feared returning would tear open everything they’d survived. There could be legal disputes, confusion, and resentment. So I left again.”
